
The 80/20 Gap: What You Need Most and Why You Have Never Asked for It Directly
Mindset · October 9, 2026
A rainy parking lot, a coat that wasn't worn, and the gap between the need you feel most and the one you actually ask for.

The Seven Tails Protocol
Mindset · September 26, 2026
When seven independent people have told you the same thing about yourself, the evidence has crossed a threshold; a protocol for what to do before that point and after it.

Feed What You Love
Mindset · November 5, 2025
A great-grandmother's kitchen on the South Side of Chicago, what it taught RK about food and people, and the recipe he finally arrived at.

Here's The Situation
Mindset · November 1, 2022
A conversation over buffalo wings about a marriage that stopped being fun, and the question that gets at what 'happy' actually meant.